Thoughts

So I am thinking about what do I want and how do I want to get there!! I am thinking about being in a relationship and the thing that goes through my head is I need a job so that I can take care of me and my kids first!! Now not only that but be able to manage myself. Is this a wrong to be thinking? I dont think so!! I think that if I am  finical stable for myself that I would be ready for a relationship. I have no clue why that is but that is the way I am thinking right now!!