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Sunday, March 11, 2012
Thoughts
So I am thinking about what do I want and how do I want to get there!! I am thinking about being in a relationship and the thing that goes through my head is I need a job so that I can take care of me and my kids first!! Now not only that but be able to manage myself. Is this a wrong to be thinking? I dont think so!! I think that if I am finical stable for myself that I would be ready for a relationship. I have no clue why that is but that is the way I am thinking right now!!
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I think it is always good to come to a relationship from a position of strength... what you can offer as a partner... instead of a position of weakness... being needy, needing someone to [fill in the blank]. All I know is that it didn't all come together for me until I was at the point where I didn't "need" someone. Don't get me wrong. I *wanted* someone in my life, but my life was good already and I was able to offer something to a relationship instead of just sucking resources out of one. Most people spend too much time thinking about what they can get from a partner (emotional support, physical intimacy, etc) and not enough time about what they can offer. I think it is great that you are putting yourself and your kids first :) I'm really proud of where you are and where you are heading!
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